Archive | November, 2011

Japanese Tea Gardens

One of our favorite little spots in San Antonio is the beautiful Japanese Tea Gardens.  Elliott and I visited the gardens three years ago when he was going through his initial Army training and I came to visit him for a few days.  We have fond memories from several years ago of sitting side by side on a little stone stairway eating olives as the shadows gathered after sunset.  Now, three years later, we brought our little baby back to enjoy the gardens as well.

Lena was fascinated (for a good 45 minutes at the least) by the pond full of magnificent koi.  I always loved the koi at the National Arboretum in D.C., but… folks, everything’s bigger in Texas.  These guys are huge.  A mom and his son were [illegally] tossing dog food kibble to the koi, causing feeding frenzies. 

Later Lena made friends with a massive gray koi.  He was about as long as she was and almost as wide around.  I think he thought her hand was just the right size to eat.

We wandered back into the gardens, pausing near the stone steps where Elliott and I ate our picnic three years ago.

After a bit of searching, we found this secluded spot for some reading and knitting.

I remember that visit to Texas like it was yesterday: our relationship was healing after a rough summer, I was sleeping on a blow-up mattress on the floor of Elliott’s friend’s girlfriend’s apartment (!), Elliott was struggling through 5am PT and no showers, and we wondered where on earth we were headed.  Together?  Maybe.  But we were anything but certain.

Could we have ever pictured this three years ago?  We’ve come through so much: a proposal and a wedding and a deployment and a pregnancy and a birth and an international move.  And here we are, in almost exactly the same spot, except with each other’s rings on our fingers as we snuggle this little beauty on our knees.  It hasn’t always been an easy three years, but I wouldn’t trade our sweet life together for anything.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, 
“plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Jeremiah 29:11 

3 :: in family, pretty places, Texas

Japanese Tea Gardens

One of our favorite little spots in San Antonio is the beautiful Japanese Tea Gardens.  Elliott and I visited the gardens three years ago when he was going through his initial Army training and I came to visit him for a few days.  We have fond memories from several years ago of sitting side by side on a little stone stairway eating olives as the shadows gathered after sunset.  Now, three years later, we brought our little baby back to enjoy the gardens as well.

Lena was fascinated (for a good 45 minutes at the least) by the pond full of magnificent koi.  I always loved the koi at the National Arboretum in D.C., but… folks, everything’s bigger in Texas.  These guys are huge.  A mom and his son were [illegally] tossing dog food kibble to the koi, causing feeding frenzies. 

Later Lena made friends with a massive gray koi.  He was about as long as she was and almost as wide around.  I think he thought her hand was just the right size to eat.

We wandered back into the gardens, pausing near the stone steps where Elliott and I ate our picnic three years ago.

After a bit of searching, we found this secluded spot for some reading and knitting.

I remember that visit to Texas like it was yesterday: our relationship was healing after a rough summer, I was sleeping on a blow-up mattress on the floor of Elliott’s friend’s girlfriend’s apartment (!), Elliott was struggling through 5am PT and no showers, and we wondered where on earth we were headed.  Together?  Maybe.  But we were anything but certain.

Could we have ever pictured this three years ago?  We’ve come through so much: a proposal and a wedding and a deployment and a pregnancy and a birth and an international move.  And here we are, in almost exactly the same spot, except with each other’s rings on our fingers as we snuggle this little beauty on our knees.  It hasn’t always been an easy three years, but I wouldn’t trade our sweet life together for anything.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, 
“plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Jeremiah 29:11 

3 :: in family, pretty places, Texas

halloween in San Antone

“Becca, it looks like people are going trick-or-treating around here.  Wanna come?” Elliott called up the stairs.

“Yes!” I gasped, “but oh no… we don’t have a costume for Lena.  What are we going to do?”

“Hmm… she could wear her hat.  The apple one,” Elliott suggested.

I couldn’t help laughing as I pushed the almost-too-small knit hat down over Lena’s ears.  It was a pretty lame last-minute Halloween costume, but she still looked stinkin’ adorable.

I should note that thus far that day I had felt very removed from Halloween merriment that I love.  My sister-in-law had sent several photos that afternoon from the Lawn of UVA, where hundreds of Charlottesville parents and their children were trick-or-treating from Lawn room to Lawn room, crunching fall leaves, mingling with students, and soaking up the autumnal holidays in true fall weather.  I had also been remembering last year in DC, when Elliott and I walked down East Capitol St to a Shakespeare production at the Folger, winding around and through groups of darling trick-or-treaters making their way down the main thoroughfare of Capitol Hill.  Here we were, in America and with a little darlin’ to dress up, but far from our favorite Halloween scenes.

Yet as we walked out into our neighborhood, we discovered that we had landed in another neighborhood that celebrates the storybook side of Halloween.  We made our way down the street past the gathering groups of little trick-or-treaters, each in the most fabulous costume their imaginations could design this year.  The parents and grandparents (and, yes, even the maids) of all beautiful King William homes were out on their front stoops, waiting for the little Belles and Raggedy Andys and escaped convicts and flower children to come dig their sweaty fists into straw baskets of M&Ms and Peanut Butter Cups.

“Would mom and dad like to trick-or-treat too?” one understanding homeowner asked, proffering a basket of goodies.  Bless her soul.  Yes I would.

Thus far in her life we can still convince Lena that flowers are just as much fun as candy.  Probably by next year she won’t be so gullible. 

I wish I could have taken pictures of all of it, but in general parents don’t like strangers taking pictures of their children.  So we contented ourselves with a leisurely walk to admire costumes and decorations.  Later, long after we’d put our tired little apple to bed, we could hear the merriment and music and calls of “trick-or-treat!”  A sweet little Halloween after all.

3 :: in family, holidays, Lena, Texas

halloween in San Antone

“Becca, it looks like people are going trick-or-treating around here.  Wanna come?” Elliott called up the stairs.

“Yes!” I gasped, “but oh no… we don’t have a costume for Lena.  What are we going to do?”

“Hmm… she could wear her hat.  The apple one,” Elliott suggested.

I couldn’t help laughing as I pushed the almost-too-small knit hat down over Lena’s ears.  It was a pretty lame last-minute Halloween costume, but she still looked stinkin’ adorable.

I should note that thus far that day I had felt very removed from Halloween merriment that I love.  My sister-in-law had sent several photos that afternoon from the Lawn of UVA, where hundreds of Charlottesville parents and their children were trick-or-treating from Lawn room to Lawn room, crunching fall leaves, mingling with students, and soaking up the autumnal holidays in true fall weather.  I had also been remembering last year in DC, when Elliott and I walked down East Capitol St to a Shakespeare production at the Folger, winding around and through groups of darling trick-or-treaters making their way down the main thoroughfare of Capitol Hill.  Here we were, in America and with a little darlin’ to dress up, but far from our favorite Halloween scenes.

Yet as we walked out into our neighborhood, we discovered that we had landed in another neighborhood that celebrates the storybook side of Halloween.  We made our way down the street past the gathering groups of little trick-or-treaters, each in the most fabulous costume their imaginations could design this year.  The parents and grandparents (and, yes, even the maids) of all beautiful King William homes were out on their front stoops, waiting for the little Belles and Raggedy Andys and escaped convicts and flower children to come dig their sweaty fists into straw baskets of M&Ms and Peanut Butter Cups.

“Would mom and dad like to trick-or-treat too?” one understanding homeowner asked, proffering a basket of goodies.  Bless her soul.  Yes I would.

Thus far in her life we can still convince Lena that flowers are just as much fun as candy.  Probably by next year she won’t be so gullible. 

I wish I could have taken pictures of all of it, but in general parents don’t like strangers taking pictures of their children.  So we contented ourselves with a leisurely walk to admire costumes and decorations.  Later, long after we’d put our tired little apple to bed, we could hear the merriment and music and calls of “trick-or-treat!”  A sweet little Halloween after all.

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