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Apple-Cream Cheese Bundt Cake with Praline Frosting

(Thank you all for your excitement over Elliott’s return! He arrived safely last night to sweet Virginia and found his little wife waiting for him outside customs with the promised Starbucks decaf soy mocha.  Lena couldn’t believe her eyes when her daddy picked her up in his arms; the look of astonishment and joy on her little face will stay with me for a long time.)

Last week two of my cousins, Anna and Allie, came over for dinner.  Before the girls arrived, my grandmother spilled the beans that Anna had just received her Masters diploma in the mail.  (Anna is sorta brilliant and is in a PhD program at Johns Hopkins.)  So I know that a Masters is only a stepping stone on the way to a PhD, but… don’t you think getting a diploma in the mail is a rather unceremonious way of finding out you have achieved a major milestone in life? 

Well, we thought so.   So… we baked a cake!  And not just any cake.  This cake was on the front cover of September’s Southern Living Magazine, and I happen to have been dreaming of a bite of that cake for weeks.  Can you imagine why?

Lena “helped” me in the kitchen (and might have enjoyed a little batter along the way too!).

This cake is so good, in fact, that it inspired me to write poetry:

Lots of tastes along the way
Make baking a fun way to spend the day!
In the end, we ate the cake. 
Here’s the recipe so you too can bake!

 Apple-Cream Cheese Bundt Cake with Praline Frosting 
Hands-on Time: 40 Minutes 
 Total Time: 4 Hours, 10 Minutes 
Ingredients
  • CREAM CHEESE FILLING:
    • 1 (8-oz.) package cream cheese, softened
    • 1/4 cup butter, softened
    • 1/2 cup granulated sugar
    • 1 large egg
    • 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
    • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • APPLE CAKE BATTER:
    • 1 cup finely chopped pecans
    • 3 cups all-purpose flour
    • 1 cup granulated sugar
    • 1 cup firmly packed light brown sugar
    • 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon
    • 1 teaspoon salt
    • 1 teaspoon baking soda
    • 1 teaspoon ground nutmeg
    • 1/2 teaspoon ground allspice
    • 3 large eggs, lightly beaten
    • 3/4 cup canola oil
    • 3/4 cup applesauce
    • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
    • 3 cups peeled and finely chopped Gala apples (about 1 1/2 lb.)
  • PRALINE FROSTING:
    • 1/2 cup firmly packed light brown sugar
    • 1/4 cup butter
    • 3 tablespoons milk
    • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
    • 1 cup powdered sugar

Directions

  1. Prepare Filling: Beat first 3 ingredients at medium speed with an electric mixer until blended and smooth. Add egg, flour, and vanilla; beat just until blended.
  2. Preheat oven to 350º. Bake pecans in a shallow pan 8 to 10 minutes or until toasted and fragrant, stirring halfway through. 
  3. Stir together 3 cups flour and next 7 ingredients in a large bowl; stir in eggs and next 3 ingredients, stirring just until dry ingredients are moistened. Stir in apples and pecans.
  4. Spoon two-thirds of apple mixture into a greased and floured 14-cup Bundt pan. Spoon Cream Cheese Filling over apple mixture, leaving a 1-inch border around edges of pan. Swirl filling through apple mixture using a paring knife. Spoon remaining apple mixture over Cream Cheese Filling.
  5. Bake at 350º for 1 hour to 1 hour and 15 minutes or until a long wooden pick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool cake in pan on a wire rack 15 minutes; remove from pan to wire rack, and cool completely (about 2 hours).
  6. Prepare Frosting: Bring 1/2 cup brown sugar, 1/4 cup butter, and 3 Tbsp. milk to a boil in a 2-qt. saucepan over medium heat, whisking constantly; boil 1 minute, whisking constantly. Remove from heat; stir in vanilla. Gradually whisk in powdered sugar until smooth; stir gently 3 to 5 minutes or until mixture begins to cool and thickens slightly.  Pour immediately over cooled cake.
18 :: in eat this, family, Virginia

an almost-welcome to Daddy

This is our last morning together with just the two of us before Daddy arrives!  It’s been three-and-a-half loooong weeks and Lena and I cannot wait to hug that boy as he walks out into Dulles airport.  I am planning to have a Starbucks decaf soy mocha in hand for him, but it’s a surprise, so I hope he doesn’t get to read this before he gets here!

Welcome to vacation in Virginia, Elliott, where we have a million things to share with you…

  1. All Lena’s new words!  Water (wa-wa), baby, walk, apple, clock, Bubba (grandpa), woof, meow, and moo… there’s a new one every day.
  2. Leaves turning the color of toasted cheddar cheese
  3. Cider hot in our mugs
  4. My preggo belly that went pop! here I am! these past couple of weeks
  5. Apples are waiting to be picked
  6. Air that is crisp with autumn instead of dry with the end of summer (hello, Sicily)
  7. A few stacks of Trader Joe’s pumpkin pancakes 
  8. A long game of Settlers of Catan with your siblings
  9. Cutting a rug at your baby brother’s wedding this weekend!  

I want to do a happy dance just thinking about these wonderful two weeks of family, friends, and fall ahead of us.  Let’s get this party started… come do some puzzles with us!

8 :: in family, husband, Lena, Virginia

an almost-welcome to Daddy

This is our last morning together with just the two of us before Daddy arrives!  It’s been three-and-a-half loooong weeks and Lena and I cannot wait to hug that boy as he walks out into Dulles airport.  I am planning to have a Starbucks decaf soy mocha in hand for him, but it’s a surprise, so I hope he doesn’t get to read this before he gets here!

Welcome to vacation in Virginia, Elliott, where we have a million things to share with you…

  1. All Lena’s new words!  Water (wa-wa), baby, walk, apple, clock, Bubba (grandpa), woof, meow, and moo… there’s a new one every day.
  2. Leaves turning the color of toasted cheddar cheese
  3. Cider hot in our mugs
  4. My preggo belly that went pop! here I am! these past couple of weeks
  5. Apples are waiting to be picked
  6. Air that is crisp with autumn instead of dry with the end of summer (hello, Sicily)
  7. A few stacks of Trader Joe’s pumpkin pancakes 
  8. A long game of Settlers of Catan with your siblings
  9. Cutting a rug at your baby brother’s wedding this weekend!  

I want to do a happy dance just thinking about these wonderful two weeks of family, friends, and fall ahead of us.  Let’s get this party started… come do some puzzles with us!

8 :: in family, husband, Lena, Virginia

Samsung vs. Apple according to Lena

What kind of phone do you have?  Lena and her Uncle Jonathan tell you which is best:

Happy news: my first guest post ever is on The Book of Love blog!  I am thrilled to be a part of Alison’s beautiful Story/Book series and to be talking about one of Lena’s favorite children’s books.  Our friend Leslie Roe took the beautiful photos for us for it and I just love them.  (Now I see why people hire a photographer to follow them around every now and then!  Have you ever done that?  Maybe someday….)

Lastly, don’t forget to enter the giveaway for a pair of fingerless gloves.  I’ll announce the winner at 3pm EST tomorrow, September 28!

5 :: in family, guest post, Lena, Rosebasket, video, Virginia

every day with grief and gladness

This is what every morning looks like these days.  Lena begins to rustle around in her crib around 7:30 or so.  I slip out of bed, gather her up into my arms, and plop her into my pillows in my bed.  I grab a big stack of books from the basket underneath my bedside table and snuggle under the covers with her.  Then we read books and talk about how we slept and what we’re going to do today, until eventually she says, “Mmm!”

And I say, “Are you hungry?  Do you want some breakfast?”

And she says, “Mmm!  Mmmm!”

And then we change her diaper, put on clothes, I put on clothes, and we go downstairs, where she eats approximately 10 bowls of Raisin Bran (her favorite) and I sip half-caff coffee and munch on Grape Nuts and bananas (my favorite).

These are peaceful days here in my parents’ house, and I am so grateful for this chance to spend extended time with family.  I have found, though, that being here at home has meant that I have begun missing Julia all over again.  Every time I come upstairs, I see her smiling at me from her high school senior portrait, glowing with fresh young beauty.  Her picture is on the wall in the entry way, above the trunk on the landing, in the photo collages in the basement.  Even now as I sit in bed writing this I can look up and see through the door into her room.  We still have barely touched her room, and I’m fine with that for now.  It’s a good place to go and miss her, and cry a bit, and think about what you have lost and what will never be.

I had lunch today with my dear friend Kim.  I told her I feel angry about Julia’s death, which is an emotion I really haven’t felt until this visit.  I had a hard time expressing my anger to Kim because it was so wrapped up in trust in and need for God at the same time.  Kim suggested that perhaps I wasn’t angry at God, I was angry along with God.  Together, God and me, we are angry.  We are angry at the presence of death in this world, we are angry that this world isn’t fair and good, we are angry at the hole Julia has left in family and friends’ lives.  Something clicked for me when she expressed the idea of being angry along with God (an idea which, coincidentally, she got from our mutual friend Sarah, another grieving friend in this sad world).  Does it make sense to you?  I love, believe, and need God in the midst of this aching, bleeding, angry loss.

I catch myself thinking, “If only Booie would come home and make us all laugh again!  We’re so sad and serious these days!” and then I remember she can’t and never will.  But then I try also to remember that she is so very happy and that we have so much to be thankful for

And I get up and face another day.  And I am thankful that each morning in this house starts so sweetly, with baby snuggles and board books, with physical presence in the momentary absence.  Until Paradise.

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