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classic literature for my little one(s)

Aren’t they beautiful?  Can’t you just smell them?  The well-loved covers and beloved pages of some of the best children’s books ever written.  Ahhh… I could just stare at this photo and admire them for a good long time.  In fact, I have.

The story behind these photos is the little shopping spree I went on before meeting Eden on Capitol Hill last Saturday.  Don’t get too worried, sweet husband, because my shopping spree cost me a grand total of $9.50, and that was only because I went to the wrong place and spent too much at a yard sale ($7.50) before I headed to the library sale and wised up over a stack of books that cost me $2.

Here’s what I scored at the yard sale:

All those Madeline books (we already have the original) make me giddy!  As does that lovely old volume of Shel Silverstein’s poetry.  I’m still looking for a good copy of The Giving Tree, my favorite Silverstein story. 

Here’s what I scored at the library sale:

The Story of Ferdinand, A Coat for Anna, Blueberries for Sal, and Lena’s first James Herriot book (she will have many, her dad’s a veterinarian) made me do a happy dance.  These were some of my favorite books as a child!  Do you see favorites of yours in there?  I’m not familiar with all of them, but they looked good enough to snag.

Anyway, I thought the “scoring” was done and couldn’t wait to box these goodies up and ship them back to Sicily via media mail.  But then I went to my brother-in-law David‘s popup library to benefit the return of librarians to D.C. schools.  David had collaborated with a restaurant on H Street and filled the restaurant with donated books… all for free!  I browsed the adult titles and then my eyes landed on the kids’ section.  There were so so so many board books!  I couldn’t believe it! 

I made this stack, staring in disbelief at all the new Eric Carle, Sandra Boynton, DK, and Dr Seuss books.  And that random, darling Melissa and Doug wooden puzzle, which Lena will undoubtedly enjoy and our little boy will undoubtedly love.  Then I turned to David and said, “Are these really free?  Should I leave some for other people?”

David said, “No!  We want to leave here with less books than we brought.  They will all be donated anyway.  Please take them all!”

And so I did.  And Lena and I have been loving them!  We’ve spent hours (literally) since Saturday lying on my bed reading them all, some of them over and over and over.  Her favorite yesterday was The Very Quiet Cricket; her favorite so far today is I Spy.  Just like at home, we read when she wakes up in the morning and Mama is too tired to get out of bed, we read before her morning nap, we read before her afternoon “nap,” and we read before bed.  We read when we need a break or have a bad attitude.  We read when Lena needs snuggle time.  We read when Mama needs snuggle time.  We read because we love it.

I am always looking for good recommendations of good books, and now I can add “books for my kids” to that list along with “books for moi.”  Which are your favorites in this post?  Or that are not in this post?  I’m currently on a hunt for books that have been awarded the Caldecott Medal… do you have any favorite winners?

15 :: in Baby Numero Due, good reads, Lena, motherhood

classic literature for my little one(s)

Aren’t they beautiful?  Can’t you just smell them?  The well-loved covers and beloved pages of some of the best children’s books ever written.  Ahhh… I could just stare at this photo and admire them for a good long time.  In fact, I have.

The story behind these photos is the little shopping spree I went on before meeting Eden on Capitol Hill last Saturday.  Don’t get too worried, sweet husband, because my shopping spree cost me a grand total of $9.50, and that was only because I went to the wrong place and spent too much at a yard sale ($7.50) before I headed to the library sale and wised up over a stack of books that cost me $2.

Here’s what I scored at the yard sale:

All those Madeline books (we already have the original) make me giddy!  As does that lovely old volume of Shel Silverstein’s poetry.  I’m still looking for a good copy of The Giving Tree, my favorite Silverstein story. 

Here’s what I scored at the library sale:

The Story of Ferdinand, A Coat for Anna, Blueberries for Sal, and Lena’s first James Herriot book (she will have many, her dad’s a veterinarian) made me do a happy dance.  These were some of my favorite books as a child!  Do you see favorites of yours in there?  I’m not familiar with all of them, but they looked good enough to snag.

Anyway, I thought the “scoring” was done and couldn’t wait to box these goodies up and ship them back to Sicily via media mail.  But then I went to my brother-in-law David‘s popup library to benefit the return of librarians to D.C. schools.  David had collaborated with a restaurant on H Street and filled the restaurant with donated books… all for free!  I browsed the adult titles and then my eyes landed on the kids’ section.  There were so so so many board books!  I couldn’t believe it! 

I made this stack, staring in disbelief at all the new Eric Carle, Sandra Boynton, DK, and Dr Seuss books.  And that random, darling Melissa and Doug wooden puzzle, which Lena will undoubtedly enjoy and our little boy will undoubtedly love.  Then I turned to David and said, “Are these really free?  Should I leave some for other people?”

David said, “No!  We want to leave here with less books than we brought.  They will all be donated anyway.  Please take them all!”

And so I did.  And Lena and I have been loving them!  We’ve spent hours (literally) since Saturday lying on my bed reading them all, some of them over and over and over.  Her favorite yesterday was The Very Quiet Cricket; her favorite so far today is I Spy.  Just like at home, we read when she wakes up in the morning and Mama is too tired to get out of bed, we read before her morning nap, we read before her afternoon “nap,” and we read before bed.  We read when we need a break or have a bad attitude.  We read when Lena needs snuggle time.  We read when Mama needs snuggle time.  We read because we love it.

I am always looking for good recommendations of good books, and now I can add “books for my kids” to that list along with “books for moi.”  Which are your favorites in this post?  Or that are not in this post?  I’m currently on a hunt for books that have been awarded the Caldecott Medal… do you have any favorite winners?

15 :: in Baby Numero Due, good reads, Lena, motherhood

solo parenting a toddler

I feel like this post’s title is a bit of a lie because I am not a solo parent.  Elliott is very much alive and well, he’s just not here.  But not here for three weeks at a time is hard.  I am very ready for this separation to be over… and we’ve still got two weeks to go.

Lena seems to have turned a corner recently and has become so willful and sassy.  Her new thing is to shout, “No!  Nooo!” just for the fun of it, often while looking me right in the eye and declaring she will not do whatever I deem a good idea or proper behavior for a 1.5-year-old.  I’m somewhat at a loss as to how to address this.  What is proper discipline?  And what is the heart of the issue that I can address in a way she will understand?  Just to illustrate a bit, those photos above were taken after a flippin’ tantrum because this little miss of mine didn’t want to wait for the dough to be finished before we tasted it.  (She sure was happy and cute by the time we took the pictures, though, with a chocolate cookie dough-covered beater in her mouth!)

Also, she appears to have given up her afternoon nap.  Guys, I love her naps.  Love them.  Every day that 90 minutes or so in the morning and again in the afternoon are bliss for me.  At home I use them to clean the house, catch up on emails, write a blog post, read a book… enjoy the peace.  There is such a sense of peace in the house when you and your child have a routine and he or she settles peacefully down for a nap!

I knew this day would come, but I hoped it would take another year (!) or so.  As I write this she is in her bed for her afternoon nap, happily chatting to herself, occasionally yelling, every now and then calling “Mama!  Maaaama!  Mamamama!”  This is Day 4 of this routine.  Yesterday I left her in her crib for 1.5 hours!  At one point she was quiet (“yay, at last” I thought) and then suddenly she began crying in distress.  I raced up the stairs and found her standing in her crib holding her fingers out to me, asking me to clean them.  They were covered in thick gel, and in the other hand was an open pot of Vaseline!  She is now big enough to reach out of her crib, open a nearby drawer, and pull out the contents.  I couldn’t believe it.  I rebuked her firmly, emptied the drawer, moved her crib, and left her… only to listen to another 30 minutes of babbling upstairs.  Finally, I gave up entirely and lifted my relieved little toddler out of her crib.  I had been stubborn, but that day she was stubborner.

Anyway, I guess I’m feeling the aches and pains of motherhood these days.  I miss my husband and I’m definitely feeling the effects of pregnancy combined with jet lag (yes, still… days later).  Lena’s new routine of waking up by 6:15am also isn’t helping things.  I need grace to mother and respond to Lena without my hubby to take over when the going gets tough (or when 5pm rolls around each day!).

And I’m also feeling my inadequacy at this whole enormous parenting task.  For all the other parents (or adult children of wise parents) who are reading this, do you have any ideas or advice?

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On an entirely different note, this blog got a facelift!  What do you think?
12 :: in Becoming a Stay-at-Home Mom Series, Lena, motherhood, thoughts

solo parenting a toddler

I feel like this post’s title is a bit of a lie because I am not a solo parent.  Elliott is very much alive and well, he’s just not here.  But not here for three weeks at a time is hard.  I am very ready for this separation to be over… and we’ve still got two weeks to go.

Lena seems to have turned a corner recently and has become so willful and sassy.  Her new thing is to shout, “No!  Nooo!” just for the fun of it, often while looking me right in the eye and declaring she will not do whatever I deem a good idea or proper behavior for a 1.5-year-old.  I’m somewhat at a loss as to how to address this.  What is proper discipline?  And what is the heart of the issue that I can address in a way she will understand?  Just to illustrate a bit, those photos above were taken after a flippin’ tantrum because this little miss of mine didn’t want to wait for the dough to be finished before we tasted it.  (She sure was happy and cute by the time we took the pictures, though, with a chocolate cookie dough-covered beater in her mouth!)

Also, she appears to have given up her afternoon nap.  Guys, I love her naps.  Love them.  Every day that 90 minutes or so in the morning and again in the afternoon are bliss for me.  At home I use them to clean the house, catch up on emails, write a blog post, read a book… enjoy the peace.  There is such a sense of peace in the house when you and your child have a routine and he or she settles peacefully down for a nap!

I knew this day would come, but I hoped it would take another year (!) or so.  As I write this she is in her bed for her afternoon nap, happily chatting to herself, occasionally yelling, every now and then calling “Mama!  Maaaama!  Mamamama!”  This is Day 4 of this routine.  Yesterday I left her in her crib for 1.5 hours!  At one point she was quiet (“yay, at last” I thought) and then suddenly she began crying in distress.  I raced up the stairs and found her standing in her crib holding her fingers out to me, asking me to clean them.  They were covered in thick gel, and in the other hand was an open pot of Vaseline!  She is now big enough to reach out of her crib, open a nearby drawer, and pull out the contents.  I couldn’t believe it.  I rebuked her firmly, emptied the drawer, moved her crib, and left her… only to listen to another 30 minutes of babbling upstairs.  Finally, I gave up entirely and lifted my relieved little toddler out of her crib.  I had been stubborn, but that day she was stubborner.

Anyway, I guess I’m feeling the aches and pains of motherhood these days.  I miss my husband and I’m definitely feeling the effects of pregnancy combined with jet lag (yes, still… days later).  Lena’s new routine of waking up by 6:15am also isn’t helping things.  I need grace to mother and respond to Lena without my hubby to take over when the going gets tough (or when 5pm rolls around each day!).

And I’m also feeling my inadequacy at this whole enormous parenting task.  For all the other parents (or adult children of wise parents) who are reading this, do you have any ideas or advice?

* * *
On an entirely different note, this blog got a facelift!  What do you think?
12 :: in Becoming a Stay-at-Home Mom Series, Lena, motherhood, thoughts

two fun things

photo from the lovely hillside town of Asolo, where we stopped for a meandering walk and a delicious dinner after our weekend in the Dolomite dairy cottage
It’s Labor Day evening here in Sicily.  We don’t ever want this day to end, partly because of the marvelous rainstorm outside our open windows.  There’s a taste of autumn in these fresh breezes.
Thought you would enjoy two happy bits of news from around here:
  • I felt the baby move!  I got this goofy grin on my face and just laid there in bed for the longest time feeling those little kicks under my hand.  My Baby Center updates say that the baby is about as big as a bell pepper now.  How tiny does that make his/her itty bitty feet?
  • Lena said, “Ciao!”  We’ve been working on this one for months.  It sounds more like “dowww.”  She likes calling out this first Italian word to random passersby… so cute.

What’s the happy news from your neck of the woods this weekend?

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