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hello from North Carolina!

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Guess where we are?!  Visiting these goofballs in their new digs!

Lena, Gil, and I had kind of a crazy Tuesday.  Elliott’s leave/vacation was over after two wonderful weeks here in the U.S., and it was time for him to get on a flight back home to Sicily.  We drove to Norfolk early in the morning with Elliott to see if he could get on a military flight.  After hours of waiting, he got one of the last available seats on the plane!  We were sad to see him go, but grateful that he was getting back for free instead of having to buy a last minute ticket or drive up and down the East Coast looking for another military flight home.  Whew!

We finally hugged him goodbye around 8pm, and I put my two exhausted children into the car.  And then we hit the road for North Carolina!  Three-and-a-half hours later, we pulled into the Arthurs’ driveway in Durham… after a whole day on the road and approximately 7 hours in the car with two children two years old and younger.  I was very glad to get a big hug from my friend Becca… and then go to bed!

It’s so good to see these wonderful friends after so many happy memories in Sicily.  We’ve been catching up over spilled cereal and battery-operated trains, as two moms do.  I love their new house (with all their familiar dishes, toys, couch, etc.), and it’s so fun to see them in their new life.

Any recommendations of fun things to do in the area?  I am really looking forward to my first taste of Carolina BBQ!

8 :: in friends, military life, travel

our last mom-outing to Taormina

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Oh Taormina! Your picturesque streets, dazzling vistas, and romantic aura charm everyone who visits you. I’ve been hooked since my first visit over two years ago, which was also my very first “mom and kids outing” with my best friend Becca Arthur. We have visited this beautiful town together so many times, but this was our last trip together, as the Arthurs were moving to the States in just two days.  So bittersweet!

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Lunch from Da Cristina, our favorite pizzeria in Taormina.  We learned about it in this wonderful NY Times article!

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Lucas shares some pizza.  Caleb participates vicariously in the bite from the background.

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Making friends with little Italian boys by the town fountain.

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Our motley crew outside a Versace store
& peekaboo, Lena and Caleb!

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Fascinated by the little mechanical toys in the piazza
& admiring the view from the cliffs of Taormina.

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My pretty Lena… with a frown.

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Mandatory stop for the best granite (Italian ice) in Taormina!  Lena got strawberry and lemon, and I got peach and lemon, both made with fresh fruit.  Gil got a taste but wasn’t so sure…

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Rebecca enjoying granita and brioche for the last time in Taormina with her Lucas, Baby Eden, and Caleb.

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Last adventure of the day: walking up to the Greek amphitheater!  This was the first time I had visited, even though it’s a huge attraction in Taormina.  Lena and Lucas wait for us to buy tickets so they can go in the gate.

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The Arthur kids have visited many times and had fun showing Lena all the fun places to climb.

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We loved exploring the old amphitheater and admiring the gorgeous view from the top.  The theater was all set up for summer concerts and operas, which are a big attraction all summer long.

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Everyone was pretty tuckered out by this point… including Gil!

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Last pit stop: popsicles.  They were so so good, but…

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… very, very messy!

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At the end of that day, with two moms and six kids, we were all ready for a nap!

But leaving Taormina for the last time together was sad. Becca taught me so much about getting out and experiencing the culture of Italy. She embraced her stay-at-home mom status in a totally unique way: she would find another fearless mom, pack multiple children into a minivan, and set off on an all-day adventure around Sicily. She would savor architecture, food, gelato, and beautiful views while navigating rapid Italian, tiny roads, tricky parking, vague directions, and often a very confused GPS. She would roll her eyes and laugh at the chaos of life with so many little children, then pile them into her stroller and strap them onto her back and set off around the next corner. She loved Italy, and Italy loved her back.

Perhaps the parallels between her cultural adventures and the way she lived her everyday life are pretty obvious.  In so many ways, she is the mom and woman I aspire to be: warm, generous, self-deprecating, humble, and full of laughter… while also a fabulous cook (including of local specialties), creative mom, come-as-you/we-are hostess, and loyal friend.  In some ways, Becca was my first “mom” friend, someone I bonded with not just because we had a lot in common and loved being together, but someone whose kids loved my kids and who shared mothering — in all its crushing losses and thrilling joys — with me in everyday life.

I miss you, Becca!  Can’t wait for some adventures together soon in North Carolina!

8 :: in friends, motherhood, Sicily, Taormina, travel

24 hours in Scotland with our kids

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Spending Tuesday in Scotland was — to be honest — the last thing we were planning to do on Monday morning.  We planned to leave on Thursday on a regularly-scheduled military flight, which would put us in the States in time for Elliott’s sister’s wedding this coming Sunday.

It was a regular Monday morning for me until I got an email from Elliott at 10am that said, “There’s a military flight leaving at 7pm tonight for the States through Scotland.  Maybe pack just in case we can get on it?”  But we were planning to host 12 people for dinner that night (including Elliott’s visiting command team), the house was a mess, I hadn’t packed a thing, and, to top it all off, I was sitting in the doctor’s office with two antsy children.  I couldn’t imagine leaving that night.  Our dinner guests wouldn’t even leave till 7:30!  There was no way.  We tabled the idea.

Later that night, after our dinner guests went out the door, Elliott called the terminal just to check on the flight.  “Becca… the flight is delayed!  It hasn’t even left Bahrain yet, and that’s four hours away.  We should pack!”

And so we did.

And at 3:45am we got on a flight to the States!  It was stressful and last-minute and a little crazy, but we did it.  The house was clean and the decision was made and the plane was taking off with us on it.  We were on our way!

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The plane landed in Prestwick, Scotland, about 3 hours later.  The military crew informed us that we’d stay for 24 hours to give the pilots time to rest, and in the meantime a bus would deliver us (and the 30-odd other passengers, most of them returning from deployment) to a hotel in the nearby town of Ayr.  “Just be ready to get back on the bus at 6:30am tomorrow morning.  Have fun!”

The photo above was the view from our hotel room window after we walked in around 8am.  We were tired but excited.  A mandatory stop in the U.K.?  I’ll take that any day!  We napped with our kids before digging out some warm clothes (it was 60 degrees outside!) and setting off to explore.

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Good morning, handsome!

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In the beautifully manicured gardens of a public park near our hotel.

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“There’s a horse, Mama!”

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The Scottish poet, Rabbie Burns, was from Ayrshire. becca-garber-scotland-12

On the town green, looking out to the Isle of Arran.

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We found the most incredible playground!

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Chasing seagulls.

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We thought Jon and Erika would appreciate this especially.

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Elliott found blackberries!  I tell you, the man has some kind of blackberry homing device.  More blackberry adventures here and here.

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High Street in Ayr.  So refreshingly different from Sicily!  (And northern Virginia, for that matter.)

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Brightly colored doors, closely cropped lawns.

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Comfort food in a little cafe called The Chatterbox.

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Love Gil’s face in this one!

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After afternoon naps, we ate dinner in a wonderful Indian restaurant called The Rupee Room.  Elliott and I both lived in India before we met, so the food has a special place in our hearts.

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Helping herself to some Indian hors d’oeuvres.

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Sunset in Scotland.

It was such a wonderful day, a mandatory respite in the midst of so much travel!  We had a great 7-hour flight the next morning with the same crew and passengers, all of whom were so incredibly kind to our family.  They had arranged for brown bag lunches for everyone on the plane (as that C-40 military plane was staffed by Navy aviators, not flight attendants with hot meals in the galley), but they bought and added stuffed toys to the brown bags for Lena and Gil.  Everyone made sure we were comfortable, and the pilots invited Lena and Elliott to come up to the front into the cockpit for awhile.  Definitely a different experience than most trans-Atlantic flights these days!

We landed at Macguire AFB in New Jersey and walked out of the terminal into big hugs from Grampa Garber.  He shuttled us back the 3.5 hours to northern Virginia that he had just driven in order to get us.  Sweet man!  We are so glad to be back in Virginia with our family.

And now… wedding weekend, here we come!

17 :: in military life, travel

favorite photos from Crete

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Although being a part of the military has its downsides (like deployments and dying for your country and other things that shall not be named today), there are a lot of military-only benefits… like commissaries and USAA and free space-available plane flights and chances to live and travel all over the world.

This trip to Crete was one of those military-only benefits where Elliott had to go for work and get a hotel room anyway, and so the kids and I tagged along on his plane flight* and stayed in his hotel room rented apartment and spent 10 days on the beach.   Perks of the job…!  It was a wonderful time for us as a family and I’m so glad we did it.  We’ll be savoring these end-of-summer memories and photos for a long time.

(*Or fly 18 hours ahead of him and leave 8 hours after him… it’s all good as long as there’s a flight…)

My apologies if some of you already saw these on Instagram, but either way… here are our favorite photos from our week in Greece!

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Elliott found this loggerhead turtle carcass on a run along the beach and took us all back the next day to see it.  Lena was duly impressed and eager to examine it.  Future scientist?

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One of the two beautiful beaches on either side of our apartment.

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Cuties!

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Lena on our first day at the beach (before Elliott joined us the next day)
& the first jar of baby food I have purchased in my life… and it’s all Greek to me!

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We read a lot of books that week while Elliott was at work, including this wonderful one called You Can Do Anything, Daddyby Michael Rex.  Our friends (who were also vacationing as a family while the husband worked with Elliott) loaned it to us.

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Morning kisses
& off-roading it as she helps me push the stroller on our daily walks to the local “super”market.

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Another morning, another walk along the beach.

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She found a little pool just her size!
& a Greek orthodox chapel.

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This little guy is getting ready to crawl!  Fave position: planking while admiring his toes (and resting on his head).

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“So sunny, Daddy.”

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Lena trying some grilled sardines (and accidentally biting off the head)
& my babies and me.

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Sunset beach walk before a dinner date… one of two that we got to take thanks to our friends watching our sleeping babes!  Thank you, David and Rachel!

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I’d love to hear what you and your family did for Labor Day weekend!  Any other beach-goers here?

9 :: in Army, family, holidays, travel

happy Labor Day!

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Happy Labor Day from someone who knows that a mama never rests from her labors!

Our Labor Day plan is very simple: enjoying one final day in Crete as we soak up the summer sun, Mediterranean sea, Greek food, and time together.  For me, ultimately that’s what any vacation is about: time with friends or family! If you’d like a peek into our vacation here, I’ve shared photos and videos through Instagram.

What are you up to this Labor Day?

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P.S.  Can’t wait to share an amazing giveaway with you tomorrow!  Get ready for a shopping spree!

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